chunkybuttjesus:

I just feel like I should make my own post about it because I’m really pissed off

Dear Tumblr, I am a gay male person

I don’t appreciate you treating me, and people like me, like objects

I’ve seen you find out Mark Gatiss is gay and then proceed to ask him who he ships in the show he helped co-create

I’ve seen you completely invalidate the sexualities of real people with wives and children because you think it’s cute and trendy to jokingly tell people they’re wrong about who they’re attracted to

I’ve seen you say that it’s okay to fetishize homosexuality, to homosexual people, and still think that you’re an lgbt ally

you’re not

you’re disgusting

you make me so fucking angry and I’ll tell you why

we are not accessories

we are not here for your entertainment

we are not represented by pornography, written or otherwise

we are real fucking people with real fucking feelings and you should respect them because I’m getting so fucking tired of your stereotypes and your complete lack of self control

if you’re not going to respect me, people like me, and our opinions- if you’re just going to treat us like little neat toys you can play around with for your amusement, then you are just as bad as any homophobe

and you are not my ally, you are my enemy